They’re plenty of benefits and reasons why couples should indulge in oral sex. Going down on your man is not only common courtesy, it’s also an act of generosity. Many, if not all men thoroughly enjoy receiving fellatio from their partner. A lot a women don’t necessarily enjoy giving head, they do it just to get it over with or to make their partner happy. I challenge you to re-imagine the purpose of the act. Instead of looking at it as a chore or something that your man wants you to do; it should be something that you look forward to. Did you know, your man has a rich a supply of essential vitamins? When it comes to fellatio, research has shown that swallowing semen can reduce stress and anxiety; with key hormones such as: oxytocin, serotonin and progesterone. You should let your partner help you relax before a big presentation coming up. Semen improves memory and increases energy. Feeling a bit over-worked? Burnout? The solution might be closer than you think. Ultimately, semen slows down the aging process of your skin and muscles. Ladies if your skin ever needs a glow, you know where to go.
The balance of power shifts in your favor when you go down on your partner. It’s all about the consideration of being in complete control of the situation. Some might view it as servitude but there’s also an element of helplessness on his part. You are in charge ladies! You get to decide how slow or how fast things should go. Take back the power of fellatio, rather than it being for the men, do it for yourselves. It all starts with the right mindset: keep an open mind and remember to have fun. Sex should be a way for couples to enjoy themselves while growing closer together. You should be able to do something pleasurable for your partner that is of no harm to you. “If you want to have a successful long-lasting monogamous relationship, you have to learn to open up and try new things together, or you will get bored.” said Los Angeles based sex therapist Dr. Chris Donaghue.
• Take pleasure in going down. It’s should be an enjoyable experience for both of you.
• Make sure you and your partner are always comfortable.
• Don’t forget to communicate, it’s essential!